I just looked up a statistic, because I was curious about the approximate percentage of addicts in the United States. The numbers say it’s 1 in 10. I don’t get it. How do I know so many 1s? My good friend called me last night, bawling and beside herself. She just discovered that her husband has a major gambling problem. My heart hurts for her. As I talk to her on the phone, I feel my stomach clench and unclench. I’ve been where she’s at. I know what it feels like when your entire world comes crashing down. I know that this is the beginning of a long journey for her. I also know that she will be okay. That doesn’t make it better and that doesn’t make it easier though.
I want to continue writing to try and express how I feel about all this, about that day when it all comes crashing down. My thoughts are a little all over the place in my brain right now, so I’m going freestyle here.
In your own little space
every jar set in place just so
to a pattern
on a line
creating a haven
a space thats mine
Working hard
always arranging
placing the jars
just so
to a pattern
on a line
The space is mine
safe and controlled
each jar
perfectly set
to a pattern
on a line
One tilts
it leans just so
careening
crashing into other
breaking the pattern
no more line
The space is there
no longer mine
broken jars
tiny fragments
with no pattern
obliterating all lines
The dust
piles on the floor
remnants of jars
sting my fingertips
numb my soul
heart a flat line